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‘She sings nice,much overmuch amended than usual;
Rasam tastes ok,but Amma’s kai manam( manus flavour) is missing;
The representation is good;of people you person a satellite people camera.”
IS everyone nether the spell of JEALOUSY?
One time oregon different each 1 is jealous.Reasons whitethorn beryllium multifold.Kamala got precocious scores and archetypal rank;The neighbour’s girl got joined early;some others begetting children oregon antheral issues
in particular; X has got a location escaped from
nagging in-laws !
It includes blistery looks regarding neighbours oregon friends getting into apical ranking institutions,and those securing covetableIT jobs etc..( Fortunately successful Tamilnadu, nary ranks are announced this time)
Lottery prizes won by chartless persons does not fuss us.. If specified a prize is won by a adjacent person oregon relative,we are enraged astir the unfairness . We enactment retired reasons wherefore helium does not merit the luck.
Bill Gates being the richest is ne'er an contented to us;but our neighbour purchasing a luxurious car oregon bangalow is overmuch achy to us. We thin to comparison ourselves lone with those person to our status. The lives of Oberoi, and Dhirubai Ambani bash not marque america consciousness envious; But a idiosyncratic with akin seniority getting promotion up of america makes america frustrated.
When an nonfiction written by a person oregon relative gets published and not ours ,somehow we effort to demean the writings. Nobel Laureates and Sahitya Academy prize winners are ne'er cared by us.
Even the 'likes' posted successful facebook by chartless radical spreads aerial of bosom burn.
We spot ourselves with radical of akin cultural, societal and fiscal milieu. When they win wherever we don't, we consciousness denied and deprived. If they could execute what we could not, with different things being equal, we thin to look for concealed advantages oregon recommendations down their selection.
Even fairer by 1 shadiness and leaner by a fewer pounds cannot beryllium tolerated by us.Reminded of ‘owner’s pridefulness and neighbour’s envy –an advertisement by Onida TV.
The dormant devil ‘J’ wrong everyone of us, waits to sneak its disfigured caput erstwhile the acrophobic idiosyncratic is either adjacent oregon beloved to us. Our location is plunged successful darkness.If determination is nary powerfulness successful neighbour’s location also,a suspiration of relief!our faces go bright,though not the house. My lad was not into IIT.Yet determination is simply a concealed pleasance since,my friend’s lad besides failed.
On 1 Dec 2015 the antheral is jubilant astir knowing that the full TV acceptable has been immersed successful brother-in-law’s location successful Chennai!What a joy!Prepared to suffer imaginativeness successful 1 eye;but the different idiosyncratic should go wholly blind.What a large thought!
But I inactive consciousness a small envy is okay, adds spice and the competitory spirit.If it is affirmative ,it should beryllium ok.But fto not the devil marque you a imperishable residence.
Therefore jealousy stems successful each country of beingness wherever 1 feels that the different idiosyncratic is much comfy portion helium is deprived of elemental joys.
"Beggars are not jealous of millionaires; they are jealous of beggars sitting adjacent to them, collecting a fewer much coins than they do."
Reminded of Shakespeare
“O, beware, my lord, of jealousy;
It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock
The nutrient it feeds on. “
Well known is the jealousy of Dhritharashtra of mahabharat.
Jealousy isn't thing we person overmuch power over. In truth, it is simply a natural, instinctive emotion that everyone experiences astatine 1 constituent oregon another.The interest is, it is an outward look and it hides different much hurtful attitudes.It is simply a mega operation of our anger, fear, grief and betrayal.It is an impulse wrong america to torment ourselves with self-critical thoughts.Jealousy invites reflection and reveals much of america to ourselves.
Jealousy is not the privilege of quality beings alone. Chimpanzees are the astir jealousand they don’t hesitate slapping the antheral partner, if helium is recovered courting another. Bluebirds are arsenic jealous. Let this not warrant our jealousy.
With each this, galore wishto beryllium envied astatine and their consciousness of superiority is often expressed as’evil dhrishti’of others.
Are they excessively nether the spell of J?I heard that determination is simply a peculiar whatsapp radical successful which members speech however to formed evil dhrishti connected others and however to flight from the same..
The feeling of 'dhrishti' itself is simply a intelligence interaction of 'ego' oregon superiority analyzable of one's ain household members either astir looks, complexion ,education, wealthiness and status.
While talking astir jealousy I americium reminded of my grandson's
article astir jelly food saying that they person nary spine oregon brain.
As ususl my thoughts wandered astir the carnal jelly food and I adjacent started envying astir it.
Imagine! No spine! No pain! No doctors to visit! No scan oregon MRI! No interest astir osteoporosis! No enlightening conversations with 1 of that species! What an enviable life! Now I person 1 much constituent to envy jellyfish about. Apparently jellyfish person nary brains, oregon truthful the superb scientists claim. I wonderment whether this is implicit oregon conscionable a comparative assessment.
No brain? No thoughts! No karma! Perpetual authorities of thoughtlessness oregon meditation. This is what large seers person been insisting on. Instant Nirvana! The bonus is nary headaches, nary migraines .
No thoughts, nary conversation, nary karma and Instant Nirvana? Such liberation won't springiness a consciousness of fulfillment. Jellyfish bash actions arbitrarily? There is nary amusive if I can't acquisition the fruits of my planned actions adjacent if I signifier not to expect it. Making mistakes and learning from it is simply a large beingness experience. .
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