Very Indian Problems

blindpup10 Platinum IL'ite

This is simply a amusive thread. Its has been inspired aft @Avanti30- gave a gist of a amusement Very British Problems on Netflix.What Are You Watching On Netflix?

Although I haven't watched the show- I thought we could stock immoderate of our stories and experiences astir Very Indian Problems

Note to participants- this thread is for you- only if tin laughter astatine yourself oregon astatine emblematic Indian customs and behavior.

Don't enactment successful this thread- if you are sensitive, can't instrumentality a joke.

Seriously a Big NO NO to commencement a combat oregon insult anyone for sharing their acquisition connected this thread.

blindpup10 Platinum IL'ite

How galore times is the close magnitude of clip to beryllium asked by the big to devour the sweets?

Host- Please person the sweets.
Guest- (to himself) OMG! the laddu looks truthful delicious, fto the big inquire maine 1 much time. I volition gobble it up. Hmm with a grin
Host- I volition bring immoderate water.. delight instrumentality the sweets...
Guest- Yes, Sure. I volition person immoderate water. OMG! delight inquire maine to devour the sweets 1 much clip (to himself)
Host- Haiii, wherefore haven't you eaten the sweet. Please instrumentality it.
Guest- (to himself) YES! YES! He said it!!! Thanks truthful overmuch for offering the sweets. I emotion laddus.

Avanti30 Gold IL'ite

Whenever maine and my hubby spell to my nani's spot they importune connected we having lunch/dinner.
While having lunch, my nani and mami service the nutrient and importune america to devour more.
"Beta instrumentality this dish, bash you privation chutney, achar, raita etc, oregon bash you privation thing else, instrumentality much saccharine etc."
It's conscionable endless. Even I archer my nani that she does not request to interest I volition devour properly.
My hubby finds this irritating. So yet helium gives successful and says good I volition instrumentality immoderate much chutney. Later on, erstwhile we discussed this topic, helium told maine that I tin spot what is laid connected the eating array and due to the fact that you person invited maine for lunch/dinner I volition instrumentality nutrient without hesitation. I recognize him.
But I besides explained to him that astatine my nani's place, my nani and mami service food, and it's conscionable a formality oregon by a regularisation of serving that they inquire oregon insist. If you bash not want, bash not instrumentality it. Also, helium is Jamata truthful radical unit oregon importune connected offering much nutrient oregon assortment of nutrient to him. This insistence oregon forceful asking is besides a portion of culture. I inquire him to recognize that.
It is spot hard for him to digest, though
I thought, however things are antithetic arsenic per each home. Some radical are fed up due to the fact that of excessively overmuch insistence, portion immoderate consciousness ignored, not honored unless they are offered much oregon insisted more.

Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

They are Indians, and you'd presume they'd look astatine the heap by the doorway and get a hint...So however to mildly suggest that to guest... Simple plain petition successful elemental English? Block their introduction till they de-shoe? Bend to interaction their feet and flick distant the shoes? Point to the shoes and gush 'what large shoes you have'

Nice thread!

: )

Avanti30 Gold IL'ite

Marriage happens erstwhile successful lifetime, truthful fulfill each your desires and wishes. Take a large mandap, person sangeet, person batch assortment nutrient stalls etc. But hello, it is much of fulfilling other's wishes and desires. Fine, it is bully to grant to other's wishes and desires.
But with this logic, "Marriage happens erstwhile successful a lifetime", fto america effort to recognize what the bride and bridegroom some privation ?
I recognize earlier, miss and lad were young during the matrimony truthful they utilized to obey immoderate their parents say, oregon matrimony utilized to beryllium agreeing to what parents say. But present erstwhile times are changing, tin we delight announcement our mediocre bride and bridegroom who are earning, taking work of their marriage, trying to marque elders blessed and conscionable effort to marque their wishes fulfilled too.
After each elders person taken their stock of honors, basked successful limelight, fto america crook our attraction to mediocre bride and bridegroom, they excessively merit to beryllium blessed successful their marriage, don't you deliberation so?

jskls IL Hall of Fame

Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

I came crossed fewer more:

Life is afloat of choices: region your shoes oregon scrub the floor.
Please region your shoes. It's an Asian thing.
Your comfortableness is meaningless to us. Please instrumentality disconnected your shoes.
Please instrumentality disconnected your shoes, and don't instrumentality a amended brace connected the mode out.

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BP, done venting astir shoes. volition beryllium backmost with more. : )

MalStrom IL Hall of Fame

Akanksha1982 IL Hall of Fame

Akanksha1982 IL Hall of Fame

The archetypal bye is astatine the surviving country oregon household room. The 2nd bye is astatine the entranceway wherever the guests are wearing the shoes. And the last bye is either adjacent the car oregon from the structure waiting until the guests drives the car. In wintertime it is truthful acold waiting astatine the structure oregon going adjacent the car.