Taunts From Sibling

I person an elder sibling who stays extracurricular India with her household and they gain successful non Indian currency. They are good disconnected than america but we are successful precocious mediate people bracket successful India, truthful comparatively amended than galore mediate people families here. The household that I americium joined into are precise simple. One of my siblings sometimes taunts maine like:

"What did you spot successful him" referring to my hubby arsenic I americium not joined to a precise affluent person.
(My view: I don't deliberation truthful I could person asked for a amended husband, helium is simply a gem)

We person 2 cars now, 1 large and 1 small. Couple of years agone we had a tiny car. My sibling would taunt maine by saying " oh.. hehe...such tiny car you have".

Another one: conscionable due to the fact that I americium staying successful an Indian metropolis (big city), I would beryllium told " How tin u enactment successful specified a soiled messed up city"

One more: I enactment with my inlaws but we enactment successful 2 antithetic floors. My sibling is like" oh.. u r staying with ur inlaws, u person to bash seva each ur life".
I mean I hardly bash immoderate sewa to them though I navigator for everyone and negociate home.

There are galore much but what bash I marque of specified statements? Why would anyone accidental specified things to others? Wanted to recognize whatz going connected successful that person's mind?