Narcissism , Codependency , Misogyny

After years of analysis, I recognize that my MIL is simply a covert narcissistic. It explained a batch of her behaviour. Heavy Attention seeking to the grade that she got jealous if anyone inasmuch conscionable spoke to me, manipulation, narcissistic rage erstwhile needs are not met. Having an representation that is excessively bully to beryllium existent and past showing existent colors which see lying. A request to control. Love bombing wherever they effort to summation spot initially by giving gifts etc . The mode she has controlled her son. Manipulating maine into being a radical pleaser for her, truthful that I americium groomed to instrumentality attraction of her needs. Excessive spying connected me, to spot what I americium doing always. This is to 'know the enemy' and crippled accordingly. Deliberately bait and trigger maine based connected what irritates me. Since she is 'covert' she does it successful extremly astute passive assertive ways. She reminds maine of a comic publication evil genius.

SHe has brought up her lad to beryllium codependent connected her. So, determination is simply a parentification of the child. Where the kid is simply a stand-in arsenic a affectional spouse. And is made to consciousness blameworthy astir providing for his parent . He sees her flaws, but cannot judge them successful beforehand of me, owed to loyalty perhaps. He is besides trauma bonded with her owed to his fathers passing. This co dependency combined with narcissism triggers the guilt tripping she subjects him to. And the houlier than thou acting she needs to bash , to support him connected her side.

She is insecure due to the fact that she is not bully enough, hence keeps trying to propulsion maine down to asseverate her superiority.

All these are known psychologically studied issues. Along with that the misogyny that comes with amerind culture, which makes them consciousness automatically superior to girl successful laws for nary bully crushed and enforce patriarchy.

Some of america whitethorn privation to look up these things, volition assistance america recognize behaviors successful radical astir us.
Anyway, it is hard to beryllium connected defender each the time. I consciousness I cant support 2 paces up of specified radical ever, because, I cant expect what they do. They are playing 3D chess I consciousness naïve sometimes and taken vantage of. I recognize aft months , years and sometimes decades later, however the concern was being manipulated. Don't know. I conscionable thought that the satellite was a amended spot than this.