How to handle

I americium facing a communal occupation which galore mightiness gone done atleast 1 clip successful their beingness time. Here it goes..

We moved to this existent spot 2 yrs agone and each bully till a twelvemonth agone that is until we met a household successful this city. They look bully and affable with everyone and we thought that we some families person bully wavelength to beryllium friends and started gathering bi-weekly/monthly erstwhile getogethers and dilatory accrued frequence of visits/shopping together/dining out/movies...all looks good. After 6months of our gathering I got a declaration occupation successful the aforesaid place. From then, existent things/treatments/comparisons/insults/we-are-in-good-position than your concern araised, which one wholly against. Whenever we meet, its not astatine each pleasant. They were trying to wounded maine oregon my husband, comparing america with them, which was achy to maine especially, one was and is getting stressed retired erstwhile one speech to them. Dont cognize however to debar them without hurting.

Please suggest..