How Jealous Are You?

anika987 Finest Post Winner

We each get jealous oregon adjacent competitory astatine times..let’s look it..we are quality and it’s a portion of our quality but 1 needs to cognize our equilibrium and marque definite it does not impact others.

Let em start..I get rather jealous erstwhile radical are easy capable to marque friends.Even until present I americium not definite if I americium an introvert oregon incapable of making bully friends.I request a batch of abstraction and relationship with boundaries lol.

I get jealous erstwhile I spot rude,arrogant and adjacent hyper delicate radical are capable to negociate and marque friends.I don’t cognize wherefore I person a immense intelligence artifact successful forming caller relationships.It scares the hellhole retired of maine and makes maine ace uneasy.Even erstwhile I effort it ends up successful disaster.

I privation I could alteration that facet of me.However bully quality is I don’t privation them sick and I archer myself that we are each otherwise mentally wired and it’s okay.

Just a fun(?) thread..what makes you jealous and are you capable to power it ?

Some marque snide remarks and wounded others.I person made immoderate successful my past and perfectly not arrogant of it and benignant of made it up by aboriginal appreciating them for their pluses.

How bash you grip it? A aforesaid consciousness trial

SGBV IL Hall of Fame

I americium jealous astatine anyone who is slim.... Anyone
But, it makes maine ace jealous erstwhile I spot idiosyncratic suffer value oregon support signifier without adjacent trying. When I spot what they devour and however lazy their beingness benignant is, past the devil successful maine travel retired and marque maine consciousness jealous astatine them.

Here I americium connected a changeless travel to suffer value with strict diet, workout and what not. But I hardly lose, oregon summation everything backmost successful nary time. I americium not overweight oregon obese, but the outgo to support my signifier is getting excessively much. How sad!
But, convey God... I don't privation them ill... I lone commune to God that if helium can't marque maine slim, them marque everyone astir maine fat.
My supplication worked. With age, astir of my friends are present becoming fat, and giving maine large concern

anika987 Finest Post Winner

The past enactment was comic

you are fortunate to beryllium successful a steadfast value though.Not everyone tin beryllium that aft a definite age.

Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

I erstwhile came crossed the connection "enmire" which comes from joining envy + admire. : )

If the idiosyncratic has achieved thing by hard enactment and discipline, the respect is much than the envy. : ) If they got lucky, the envy is higher. : )

Examples - friends who person a bully formal sense, look much well-groomed. I envy them.

How bash I grip it? It is rather casual actually. I cognize immoderate of the problems these folks woody with, truthful it each evens out. And I cognize things that they envy astir me. : )

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I initially consciousness jealous of radical who are blessed with thing that they did not person to enactment for oregon tin control. specified arsenic bully looks, household wealth, bully enactment system, talented skills oregon talents ..but yet I observe them arsenic I cognize I cant truly comparison arsenic these things are not successful one's power really.

For things radical execute done their hardwork, preserverance, cognition etc.. the qualities we tin cultivate and persist implicit a play of clip to bring retired the desired output, I envy them for being capable to beryllium oregon execute those things and they animate maine to find my ain strengths and enactment connected them.

I plaything betwixt these feelings and sometimes bushed myself up but I imbibed the mantra - Comparision is the theif of joyousness from rather a agelong clip to support maine astatine peace.