If yes, how did you dial down the friendship? And if you're okay with sharing, what led you to dial it down?
Just today i
Toned down..with my bestie..
Only reason is i
Found her taking my feelings for granted
I like her and was always there for her but somewhere i noticed that if she is quite upset over something..she becomes off with mr even if i have nothing to do with it..
This is just not for me but ask anyone who is nothing but nice to others..they will be taken for granted as they wont react back and tolerate.
So i decided i need tone it a bit and distanced myself a bit..kind of a break and also started to
Keep a little boundary..
Finally, I remembered my husband's any time advice: 'Have some pride.' I know definitely she doesn't do it by design, she just happens to take me for granted. But, my patience has run out.
So:
I've started to reply less often, ignoring some routine questions, and keeping responses very brief. Keeping topics generic like movies, TV. I haven't viewed or downloaded the last few times she shared photos or videos in WhatsApp with me. Now both my mind and phone are less cluttered.
Last edited: May 28, 2024 at 7:34 AM